I believe that there are different kinds of love there is the love you have for your family, the love you have for your bestfriend or partner and the love you have for a pet you have had your whole life or the teddy bear your grandma gave you when you were five but no matter who or what you love the love is still complex the main reason love is so complex is because as humans we don't always love what we need to or what is good for us from my personal experiences there have been things and people that i loved that were not good for me my love for those things was complex and difficult because over time i learned to appreciate them greatly and i actually thought that they were things that made me me My love for things like that had stages, the first stage would be falling in love with the thing the second stage would be realizing that the thing that i am in love with is not good for me but within realizing that i would conclude that i must love this thing for a reason and that there was no way to part from it the third stage would be where i am presently, Now that i have strayed away from my denial of this thing i am trying to part away from to make it just another thing in the past that was a great learning experience it is not as easy as I imagined it would be and that is where the complexity comes in when you are faced with the tough decision of parting from something that you truely love it changes you no matter whether your choice is to stay with or leave it alone well whatever enough of that the moral of the story is : don't fall in love it sucks !!!